About relationships 2.

As I said in a previous post, I'm not an expert of relationships. The only example I have is my experience.

I learned from my mistakes and I tried not to repeat them again.

But, the first thing to say is that, even if psychologists tend to group profiles for their affinities, the reality is that we can't tell about every single relationship, because it's made between two different individuals, with different imprintings and nobody can figure out how it can evolve.

Forget them then, and forget horoscopes. That's shit.

Omitting the relationships I had when I was young (althought they taught me something anyway) what I really understood is that you won't ever know how it ends (if it does, of course).

It's a kind of challenge and you have to accept it or not.

Until you know a little of who the other part is, you never know if they should have been worth or not.

Main rules of the game, however, are for sure: Respect, Loyalty, Trust, Love.

Don't deceive yourself if you miss one of the above. It leads to a shitty relationship.

Don't deceive yourself idolizing the other, it's just an illusion of yours.

Don't deceive yourself believing that you can change them, they don't and they won't ever do.

The only thing you can do is analyzing the situation and deciding: is that what I want in my relationship?

The answer is also the one that drives ahead this chapter or not.

Another thing that I learned is recognizing the symptoms when it's over.

Too often, we try to deceive ourselves giving another chance, waiting for something's over that we think it's just a crisis, but after a while that you're with that person and after you're collecting behaviours or actions from the other part you don't like, maybe you've already reached the point to consider that that person is not the mean to be.

Better leaving on time, before the pain becomes bigger, closing that chapter and deleting every contacts.

And... no way. You know it's over when you're already looking for something better outside of that relationship.

Once the crack, the slot is open, there's nothing left to do to turn back.

Just, move over with your life.