About relationships.

I start saying that I'm not an expert neither I have a degree on Psychology, so what I'm going to say it's based on my own experience. That's pretty a disaster too.

I'm following on Facebook "The problem with women..." page and yesterday, just for curiosity, I checked the book on Amazon. I admit that I was going to buy the both of books till I read a review, written by a man that looks with the head on his shoulders.

First, I have to tell that I agree with the most of posts and statements on the author's page, then after having read the mentioned review, I realized that I was agreeding as well as I usually do when I find a funny image from some-e-cards: kinda commonplaces that meet the view of the most.

Anyway, back to the main topic, the author claims himself as a relationship expert, even if I didn't find any proof of that. It looks most likely he's expert as everyone of us is about our own life.

Shortening, the first book describes his evolution from a dickhead with women to an appearance of a man, that hides nobody else than a player. It's nice to see, however, how he explains every trick and evasion that each woman of us has experienced at least once in our life when dealing with the opposite sex. For the rest, nothing new: lies, cheating on, excuses and whatever makes a weak woman a tool in male's hands. It could be useful to someone indeed, that still lives in a muffled world of fantasy, where everything is good and beautiful, just to be enough blind to hide themselves from the true and avoinding of being hurt.

Personally, I don't fully blame the opposite sex. I've been a good and bad girlfriend, depending on the case, but at last I learned that what really counts is the weight we give to that relationship. If it doesn't matter, who cares if what we're doing is right or wrong, when it's time to summarize it's also time to close that chapter and move on.

At the end, we're the only responsibles for our happiness that doesn't depends on others. If we meet a worthy person, thanks god, otherwise there's nothing worst than being with the wrong one just because of the fear of being alone. This applies to both sexes.

Being single, sometimes, doesn't mean being a loser, expecially when it's our choice. That means, instead, being aware of our own value.

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